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Well, here's the more than needed update on my life I suppose. Nothing incredibly eloquent or graceful about this entry to be completely honest.
I am officially identifying myself as an Asexual. It's been a struggle since I've come out to people (not my family yet) because it's just something that many people don't understand. It's been even more of a struggle because I work with an intense amount of sexual people and they're the ones that have labeled me as 'weird' and 'not normal.' It just makes things harder to deal with I guess.
I should probably clear things up, SEX DOES NOT SCARE ME AND ANYTHING THAT HAPPENED TO ME IN THE PAST HAS HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH MY ORIENTATION. I just don't see what the big deal with sex is. I've had sex (that will probably come as a surprise to my friend Angela because I know she'll have read this...surprise? lol) and maybe I was less impressed before, during and after the whole experience. Sure, I acted like I loved it. It's just one of those things that just isn't my thing. I don't enjoy it at all. I'm not opposed to sex like EVER. People are more than welcome to enjoy it and talk about it. Whatever. It won't make me uncomfortable at all. Just like I may not like a certain food or movie or music genre, it's sort of the same situation.
On a completely different note, I think I'm going to get my hair done crazy different. Kind of the way I've always wanted it, but have always decided not to because a) I was piss poor and b) I wouldn't hear the end of it from my parents telling me it would be hard to get a job blah blah blah.
Lucky for my, I have a job where it doesn't matter what tattoos you have and where you have them and what color your is etc. This would be the moment where I could do that. I couldn't do that with my first job. I feel like I have more freedom with this job in the modification aspect of things.
Anyway, love you all. Sorry for giving you a drought of art and updates. I'll try to do so more often when I'm not working so much.
Love you all!
Katie
I am officially identifying myself as an Asexual. It's been a struggle since I've come out to people (not my family yet) because it's just something that many people don't understand. It's been even more of a struggle because I work with an intense amount of sexual people and they're the ones that have labeled me as 'weird' and 'not normal.' It just makes things harder to deal with I guess.
I should probably clear things up, SEX DOES NOT SCARE ME AND ANYTHING THAT HAPPENED TO ME IN THE PAST HAS HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH MY ORIENTATION. I just don't see what the big deal with sex is. I've had sex (that will probably come as a surprise to my friend Angela because I know she'll have read this...surprise? lol) and maybe I was less impressed before, during and after the whole experience. Sure, I acted like I loved it. It's just one of those things that just isn't my thing. I don't enjoy it at all. I'm not opposed to sex like EVER. People are more than welcome to enjoy it and talk about it. Whatever. It won't make me uncomfortable at all. Just like I may not like a certain food or movie or music genre, it's sort of the same situation.
On a completely different note, I think I'm going to get my hair done crazy different. Kind of the way I've always wanted it, but have always decided not to because a) I was piss poor and b) I wouldn't hear the end of it from my parents telling me it would be hard to get a job blah blah blah.
Lucky for my, I have a job where it doesn't matter what tattoos you have and where you have them and what color your is etc. This would be the moment where I could do that. I couldn't do that with my first job. I feel like I have more freedom with this job in the modification aspect of things.
Anyway, love you all. Sorry for giving you a drought of art and updates. I'll try to do so more often when I'm not working so much.
Love you all!
Katie
*enter Mushu* I LIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIVE!
So, it's been a while since I've written one of these but HERE I AM. As you can see I have changed my username from InvaderVim to Vimmuse which I am MUCH more comfortable having so YAY. Also, I'm going to hopefully be more active especially this summer with my camera and get some practice in. I'll be looking into taking a photography class so I'll be able to use my camera to its full potential! Thanks for sticking with me through all of this. I just finally realized that this is something I wanted to pursue as a healthy hobby that I would like to do on the side. Here's to discovering potential!~ Vim
Bought A New Lens!
But no you guys don't understand. I bought it for $2. It's a Tamron and it's a 75-300mm. The only thing wrong with it is that the Auto-Focus doesn't work BUT I CAN WORK WITH THAT FOR $2 OH MY GODDDDDDD. My mom found it at a garage sale.
*~*~*~*~*~ALL HAIL THE GARAGE SALES AND FLEA MARKETS~*~*~*~*~*
Open Letter to Michelle's Father
To Michelle's [my best friend] Father,
I hope you realize how incredibly paranoid you're being. There's a huge problem with you, sir. Your daughter is 19 years old and you're making her socially alienated from anyone and that's honestly what a young adult needs. Especially during school. School is definitely important, but having support no matter where it's coming from is the most important. You can't force what isn't yours to empower. This is her life. Let her live it. Don't take her away from me. She's the most important person in my life right now. You've not only ruined her life but your actions have affected the lives of othe
So, like, Happy Easter and stuff.
Also, my shoulder and neck hurts so much that I can't turn my head to look down or to the right. And It's going to suck so much to sleep tonight uGH
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You believe you're asexual? Oh my god, that is fascinating! I'm quite familiar with the term, the concept and the idea behind it... and, unfortunately I know that the majority of the world has no clue about this particular orientation and, point blank, cannot understand it. I've never met an asexual person myself before, but I've had a long time awareness and appreciation of sex & sexuality in general, so I've explored a lot of what is out there 
This can be a difficult thing for most people to get their minds around seeing as how sex and sexuality is a natural part of most of their lives and interests... but I am sorry that you've gotten such dismissive labels put on you such as being weird or abnormal : / Jerks. I think my reaction is quite the opposite 
I find it endlessly fascinating and would jump at the chance to explore it all further with you on many levels! 
You know, I really wonder why this particular orientation is not explored more by scientists and 'sexologists' as it just seems, at its core, to be so damned interesting
It's pretty funny just how many jobs in the States put incredible restrictions on their employees about their appearance... I've been at a few of those myself.
This can be a difficult thing for most people to get their minds around seeing as how sex and sexuality is a natural part of most of their lives and interests... but I am sorry that you've gotten such dismissive labels put on you such as being weird or abnormal : / Jerks. I think my reaction is quite the opposite I find it endlessly fascinating and would jump at the chance to explore it all further with you on many levels! You know, I really wonder why this particular orientation is not explored more by scientists and 'sexologists' as it just seems, at its core, to be so damned interesting
It's pretty funny just how many jobs in the States put incredible restrictions on their employees about their appearance... I've been at a few of those myself.